For further resources on this topic check out:
Gottman Institute blog about conflict: https://www.gottman.com/blog/conflict-normal-natural-part-happily-ever/
Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Styles assessment: https://www.mtdtraining.com/blog/thomas-kilmann-conflict-management-model.htm
Gottman’s on Unlocking Us with Brene Brown: https://brenebrown.com/podcast/the-love-prescription-part-1-of-3/
Four Horsemen Article: https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/
Discussion questions for reflection with your friends: